It is not uncommon to wonder how you can get HIV. The human immunodeficiency virus (HIV) can be transmitted through anal, penile-vaginal, and oral intercourse. With this said, of these activities, anal intercourse (also known as “anal sex”) puts someone at the highest risk for transmission of HIV by a large margin. Oral intercourse is the lowest-risk activity listed.
Read this articles to understand your odds of contracting HIV.
Other factors can increase the risk of HIV transmission, such as a herpes infection and the presence of genital lesions or ulcerations. It is important to remember that condoms are very effective at reducing the risk of HIV. Typical use of condoms (which is imperfect) still leads to an 80 to 85 percent risk in reduction of HIV transmission. Latex and polyurethane condoms are impenetrable to HIV viral particles, but it is important that condoms are used properly to help reduce the risk of HIV transmission.
Kissing, skin-to-skin contact, and contact with tears, feces, urine, and sweat are not risk factors for transmission of HIV. Because such contact does not involve blood, the theoretical risk of transmission is zero percent.
Risk rates for HIV transmission
The exact transmission rates are not known with total certainty. However, among heterosexual couples, the approximate rates of HIV transmission are as follows:
- About 1 in 200 sexual acts, for receptive anal intercourse
- About 1 in 1000 sexual acts, for receptive vaginal intercourse
- About 5 in 10,000 sexual acts, for insertive vaginal intercourse
Additionally, receiving oral sex from an HIV-infected person carries a risk of only about 1 in 10,000 sexual acts. As you can see, the risk of receiving oral sex and performing penetrative vaginal sex are significantly lower than anal intercourse (receptive or insertive).